Experiences of Parenthood and the Child with an Intellectual Disability

Abstract: Boström, P. (2012). Experiences of Parenthood and the Child with an Intellectual Disability. Department of Psychology, University of Gothenburg, Sweden. When a child is diagnosed with an intellectual disability (ID) the experience of parenthood is affected and parents’ descriptions tend to vary, containing a wide spectrum of emotions that may change over time. In the present thesis, empirically-based knowledge about parents of children with ID and their particular circumstances in Sweden is described within the theoretical framework of Bronfenbrenners’ ecological model (1977). The individual children and their closest relationships are at the centre of the ecological model, surrounded by spheres of environmental factors that interact with their development directly and indirectly. Parents are affected by the disability in terms of mental health as increased levels of stress and depression have been found among parents of children with ID. The impairment in parental mental health is not, however, simply explained by the severity of the disability or developmental delay, but is related to a number of risk and protective factors in parents and children. Parents’ descriptions and experiences of parenthood are not only of interest from a mental health point of view. They also offer information about the parent’s motivational system to provide care and protection for the child described within attachment theory (Mayseless, 2006a). To explore the diversity of parents’ experiences, the four studies presented in this thesis aimed to investigate parents’ descriptions and experiences of their child with ID during five years from two different perspectives. In studies I and II, parents’ descriptions of child temperament were analysed and explored in relation to positive and negative impact of the child. Results from studies I and II indicated that children with ID differ from typically developing children in terms of temperament. Two unique temperament profiles (disruptive and passive/withdrawn temperament) were found only among children with ID and turned out to predict negative impact on mothers. In studies III and IV, interviews with parents exploring their subjective experiences of the child and the parent-child relationship were analysed. Most parents in study III described their child in both positive (affectionate/loving) and negative terms, indicating a balanced experience of their child. In contrast, a few parents’ narratives were more limited, offering a less nuanced picture. Experiences varied between acceptance of and preoccupation with the disability. Parent’s narratives varied in time orientation in terms of tense and flexibility. In study IV, fathers explicitly described how receiving the diagnosis of the child had affected them as persons in the theme an interrupted path - no longer taking things for granted. Fathers mostly described themselves as being a good father. The process of integrating, managing and living with the insight of the child’s diagnosis was described in the theme dealing with the unexpected containing the subthemes vulnerable openness, contained openness, and avoiding the unexpected. The four studies show that children with ID constitute a highly heterogeneous group evoking equally diverse reactions from their parents. Results indicate that parents are affected by the variety in child temperament, and also by the support and constrains of their environments. The different perspectives may provide important information about parents’ emotions towards and experiences of the child that may affect parents’ well-being and parenting behaviour.